Accepting Quote by Jay Asher
“You told me I wrote that poem because I was afraid of dealing with myself. And I used my mom as an excuse, accusing her of not appreciating or accepting me, when I should have been saying those words into a mirror.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Thirteen Reasons Why, Jay Asher, 2007
Avoid projecting personal issues onto others; confront yourself directly.
In simple terms: Face your own problems.
Own your feelings.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- conflict resolution
- personal journaling
- family discussions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What excuses do you use to avoid self‑examination?
- How can you speak truth to yourself?
Self‑confrontation can be painful and may trigger denial.