Preconceived notions Quote by Jason Luke

“I participate in BDSM, but I wasn't abused as a child. I don't hate women, or particularly enjoy hurting women. Sometimes I make them…

— Nenia Campbell

“BDSM isn't about play, not for pleasure purists. It's our own fucked up version of therapy. If we weren't fucked up, sick and twisted…

— Erica Chilson

“think if more people understood the reality, they’d be less inclined to classify the lifestyle as abusive, or demeaning. Those”

— Jason Luke

“In my eyes, BDSM is not a sexual experience, it's a spiritual connection.”

— Simon Shroud

“I don’t think I like the idea that you just control me, but you get to do anything you like.” “Ah, but that’s because…

— Lexi Blake

“Rather than being insecure, psychological abusers are easily offended, consumed with themselves, and want things just their way.   Each”

— Shannon Thomas

“The only generally accepted rules of sex-play in a BDSM relationship are that whatever the participants engage in must be safe, sane, and it…

— Jason Luke

“When you strip all the props, the imagery, the erotica and the mystery away, BDSM is about two people, trying to discover what makes…

— Jason Luke

“...she knew right away she was entering a new world. One she had never witnessed or played a part in, but from first glance…

— Talon P.S

“That's what's so ironic about the conservative backlash against BDSMers. With increased visibility comes increased bigotry, and conservatives continue to rally against kinky events…

— Tristan Taormino

“I believe a true relationship between a Master and his submissive is as much about the emotional balance and interaction as it is about…

— Jason Luke

“An abuser can be thought of not as a man who is a "deviant," but rather as one who learned his society's lessons too…

— Lundy Bancroft