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Education Quote by Janet, Bray Attwood

“Example comes first, then relationship, then teaching, because example is seen, relationship is felt, teaching is heard. People tend not to hear until they see and feel, and that's what happened with me. I saw and I felt in my home. Then, that enabled me to hear, because of what I was seeing and…” quote by Janet, Bray Attwood
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““Example comes first, then relationship, then teaching, because example is seen, relationship is felt, teaching is heard. People tend not to hear until they see and feel, and that's what happened with me. I saw and I felt in my home. Then, that enabled me to hear, because of what I was seeing and feeling. Stephen M. R. Covey””

Janet, Bray Attwood

About This Quote

Source Book: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen M. R. Covey, 1989

Learning is most effective when people first see an example, then feel a relationship, and finally hear teaching.

In simple terms: Example precedes relationship, which precedes teaching.

Key Takeaway

Use concrete examples to build trust before instructing.

Themes

learning trust communication

Mood

engaging empathetic

Type

educational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • Team training
  • parenting
  • coaching sessions

Key Concepts

Modeling empathy instruction

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you demonstrate concepts before explaining?
  • What relationships need to be built before instruction?
A Different Perspective

Relying solely on teaching without example may fail.

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