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Argument Quote by Jane Hamilton

“The two or so times we actually fought she smashed a plate and stormed out into the night. I have always disliked an argument. When I tried to be the voice of reason, when I pointed out that it might be wiser to continue what I mildly referred to as, “the discussion,” she flew off the handle…” quote by Jane Hamilton
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““The two or so times we actually fought she smashed a plate and stormed out into the night. I have always disliked an argument. When I tried to be the voice of reason, when I pointed out that it might be wiser to continue what I mildly referred to as, “the discussion,” she flew off the handle again. Later, in jest, she accused me of being more even and mature than any reasonable person could tolerate.””

Jane Hamilton

About This Quote

Source Short Story: “The Argument”, 2012

Attempts at rational dialogue can be thwarted by emotional outbursts, revealing the limits of reason in heated conflicts.

In simple terms: Reason often fails in angry arguments.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when reason won’t help.

Themes

conflict communication emotion reason

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

reflective philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • workplace disputes
  • family gatherings

Key Concepts

psychology interpersonal dynamics self‑awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you step back from a heated discussion?
  • How can you de‑escalate when reason is ignored?
A Different Perspective

Emotions may dominate despite calm reasoning.

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