Be good Quote by Jane Fonda
“We grow up being told, "Be a good girl." When you're told to be good, you have to get rid of whatever is bad.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast "The Talk", 2020
Societal expectations pressure girls to suppress perceived negative traits, limiting authentic self‑expression.
In simple terms: Girls are told to be good, which can suppress their true selves.
Embrace all parts of yourself, not just the "good" ones.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- adolescence
- career development
- personal growth
- mental health
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does labeling traits as "bad" affect self‑esteem?
- What steps can you take to honor your whole self?
The pressure to conform can also protect from social backlash, making change risky.