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Elizabeth Feelings Quote by Jane Austin

“In such cases as this, it is, I believe, the established mode to express a sense of obligation for the sentiments avowed, however unequally they may be returned. It is natural that obligation should be felt, and if I could feel gratitude, I would now thank you. But I cannot–I have never desired…” quote by Jane Austin
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““In such cases as this, it is, I believe, the established mode to express a sense of obligation for the sentiments avowed, however unequally they may be returned. It is natural that obligation should be felt, and if I could feel gratitude, I would now thank you. But I cannot–I have never desired your good opinion, and you have certainly bestowed it most unwillingly. I am sorry to have occasioned pain to anyone. It has been most unconsciously done, however, and I hope will be of short duration. The feelings which, you tell me, have long prevented the acknowledgment of your regard, can have little difficulty in overcoming it after this explanation.” Mr. Darcy, who was leaning against the mantelpiece with his eyes fixed on her face, seemed to catch her words with no less resentment than surprise. His complexion became pale with anger, and the disturbance of his mind was visible in every feature. He was struggling for the appearance of composure, and would not open his lips till he believed himself to have attained it. The pause was to Elizabeth’s feelings dreadful. At length, with a voice of forced calmness, he said: And this is all the reply which I am to have the honour of expecting! I might, perhaps, wish to be informed why, with so little endeavour at civility, I am thus rejected. But it is of small importance.” I might as well inquire,” replied she, “why with so evident a desire of offending and insulting me, you chose to tell me that you liked me against your will, against your reason, and even against your character? Was not this some excuse for incivility, if I was uncivil?””

Jane Austin

About This Quote

Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813, Chapter 56

A complex exchange where Darcy acknowledges his conflicted feelings, revealing social constraints and personal pride.

In simple terms: Darcy struggles with duty and desire.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on honesty in relationships.

Themes

love social duty pride communication gender roles

Mood

reflective romantic tense

Type

Elizabeth Feelings:1 Obligation Sentiments:1 Sentiments Avowed:1 Obligation Felt:1 Reply Honour:1

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • family expectations
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

obligation sentiment misunderstanding self-awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance duty and authenticity?
  • What role does pride play in misunderstandings?
A Different Perspective

The dialogue may reflect Victorian norms limiting open expression.

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