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“Whom are you going to dance with?' asked Mr. Knightley. She hesitated a moment and then replied, 'With you, if you will ask me.' Will you?' said he, offering his hand. Indeed I will. You have shown that you can dance, and you know we are not really so much brother and sister as to make it at all…” quote by Jane Austen
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“Whom are you going to dance with?' asked Mr. Knightley. She hesitated a moment and then replied, 'With you, if you will ask me.' Will you?' said he, offering his hand. Indeed I will. You have shown that you can dance, and you know we are not really so much brother and sister as to make it at all improper.' Brother and sister! no, indeed.”

Jane Austen

About This Quote

Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813

A character invites a potential partner to dance, revealing mutual affection and breaking social formality.

In simple terms: A dance invitation shows love and challenges sibling-like distance.

Key Takeaway

Accept invitations that reveal deeper feelings.

Themes

romance social norms courtship

Mood

hopeful playful

Type

literary dialogue

When to use this quote

  • ballroom events
  • first dates
  • social gatherings
  • family gatherings

Key Concepts

gender roles intimacy personal courage

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance propriety with genuine affection?
  • What risks are worth taking for love?
A Different Perspective

May be misread as inappropriate in conservative settings.

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