Children Quote by Jane Austen
““There will be some difficulty in our way, Mrs. Norris,” observed Sir Thomas, “as to the distinction proper to be made between the girls as they grow up: how to preserve in the minds of my daughters the consciousness of what they are, without making them think too lowly of their cousin; and how, without depressing her spirits too far, to make her remember that she is not a Miss Bertram.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Persuasion by Jane Austen, 1817
A mother worries about her daughters’ self‑esteem and social standing, trying to balance pride and humility.
In simple terms: Mother worries about daughters’ pride and humility.
Key Takeaway
Teach humility while nurturing confidence.
Themes
family
social class
self‑esteem
Mood
concerned
thoughtful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- parental guidance
- school counseling
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
pride
humility
identity
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents foster confidence without arrogance?
- What role does social class play in self‑image?
A Different Perspective
Balancing pride and humility can be culturally complex.
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