Three things Quote by Jane Austen
““Oh! very well," exclaimed Miss Bates, "then I need not be uneasy. 'Three things very dull indeed.' That will just do for me, you know. I shall be sure to say three dull things as soon as ever I open my mouth, shan't I?—(looking round with the most good-humoured dependence on every body's assent)—Do not you all think I shall?" Emma could not resist. "Ah! ma'am, but there may be a difficulty. Pardon me—but you will be limited as to number—only three at once." Miss Bates, deceived by the mock ceremony of her manner, did not immediately catch her meaning; but, when it burst on her, it could not anger, though a slight blush shewed that it could pain her.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Emma, 1815
Miss Bates worries about being judged for speaking too much, fearing social disapproval.
In simple terms: Fear of social judgment over talking.
Key Takeaway
Be mindful of social cues and self‑expression.
Themes
social anxiety
communication
self‑esteem
Mood
anxious
contemplative
lighthearted
Type
literary
dialogue
character study
When to use this quote
- social gathering
- family dinner
- public speaking
- online comment
Key Concepts
social norms
interpersonal dynamics
self‑censorship
Questions to Reflect On
- How does fear of judgment affect your speech?
- When is restraint beneficial?
A Different Perspective
Over‑cautiousness may limit authentic voice.
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