Affection Quote by Jane Austen
“If gratitude and esteem are good foundations of affection, Elizabeth's change of sentiment will be neither improbable nor faulty. But if otherwise--if regard springing from such sources is unreasonable or unnatural, in comparison of what is so often described as arising on a first interview with its object, and even before two words have been exchanged, nothing can be said in her defence, except that she had given somewhat of a trial to the latter method in her partiality for Wickham, and that its ill success might, perhaps, authorise her to seek the other less interesting mode of attachment.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
The quote argues that affection based on gratitude and respect is reasonable, but love that arises instantly without interaction is questionable.
In simple terms: Affection should grow from respect, not sudden attraction.
Key Takeaway
Value steady, respectful connections.
Themes
affection
respect
social expectations
courtship
class
love
Mood
reflective
analytical
critical
Type
literary
philosophical
character analysis
When to use this quote
- marriage negotiations
- family introductions
- social gatherings
- first impressions
Key Concepts
social contract
emotional authenticity
class dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prioritize respect over instant attraction?
- How do social norms shape your view of love?
A Different Perspective
It may overlook genuine chemistry that can develop quickly.
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