Character Quote by Jane Austen
“I have frequently detected myself in such kind of mistakes... in a total misapprehension of character at some point or other: fancying people so much more gay or grave, or ingenious or stupid than they really are, and I can hardly tell why, or in what the deception originated. Sometimes one is guided by what other people say of them, without giving oneself time to deliberate and judge.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Emma, Jane Austen, 1815
We often misjudge others based on superficial impressions, leading to false assumptions about their character.
In simple terms: Misjudging others is common.
Key Takeaway
Pause, observe, and reflect before forming opinions.
Themes
misjudgment
perception
character
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- first meetings
- online dating
- team collaborations
- friendships
Key Concepts
bias
social perception
self‑awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you verify your assumptions about people?
- What steps can you take to reduce bias?
A Different Perspective
Preconceptions can be hard to overturn even after evidence.
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