Children Quote by Jane Austen
““I have been a selfish being all my life, in practice, though not in principle. As a child I was taught what was right, but I was not taught to correct my temper. I was given good principles, but left to follow them in pride and conceit. Unfortunately an only son (for many years an only child), I was spoilt by my parents, who, though good themselves (my father, particularly, all that was benevolent and amiable), allowed, encouraged, almost taught me to be selfish and overbearing; to care for none beyond my own family circle; to think meanly of all the rest of the world; to wish at least to think meanly of their sense and worth compared with my own. Such I was, from eight to eight and twenty; and such I might still have been but for you, dearest, loveliest Elizabeth! What do I not owe you! You taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled. I came to you without a doubt of my reception. You showed me how insufficient were all my pretensions to please a woman worthy of being pleased.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Unnamed Manuscript, 2007 (fictional)
The narrator confesses lifelong selfishness shaped by upbringing, then credits a loved one for humility and self‑improvement.
In simple terms: Selfish habits can be corrected through love and humility.
Seek humility through relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- family counseling
- personal mentorship
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What relationships have humbled you?
- How can you practice humility daily?
Self‑awareness can be delayed without external challenge.