Cold Quote by Jane Austen
“He was not an ill-disposed young man, unless to be rather cold hearted, and rather selfish, is to be ill-disposed…”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813
A man who appears kind may hide selfish motives; appearances can be deceptive.
In simple terms: Looks can be deceiving.
Key Takeaway
Beware of hidden selfishness.
Themes
trust
deception
character
relationships
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
literary
observational
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- business negotiations
Key Concepts
social perception
moral ambiguity
Questions to Reflect On
- What signs reveal true intentions?
- How do you balance trust and caution?
A Different Perspective
People may act kindly but still pursue self‑interest.
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