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Catherine De Bourgh Quote by Jane Austen

“During dinner, Mr. Bennet scarcely spoke at all; but when the servants were withdrawn, he thought it time to have some conversation with his guest, and therefore started a subject in which he expected him to shine, by observing that he seemed very fortunate in his patroness. Lady Catherine de…” quote by Jane Austen
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““During dinner, Mr. Bennet scarcely spoke at all; but when the servants were withdrawn, he thought it time to have some conversation with his guest, and therefore started a subject in which he expected him to shine, by observing that he seemed very fortunate in his patroness. Lady Catherine de Bourgh's attention to his wishes, and consideration for his comfort, appeared very remarkable. Mr. Bennet could not have chosen better. Mr. Collins was eloquent in her praise. The subject elevated him to more than usual solemnity of manner, and with a most important aspect he protested that "he had never in his life witnessed such behaviour in a person of rank—such affability and condescension, as he had himself experienced from Lady Catherine. She had been graciously pleased to approve of both of the discourses which he had already had the honour of preaching before her. She had also asked him twice to dine at Rosings, and had sent for him only the Saturday before, to make up her pool of quadrille in the evening. Lady Catherine was reckoned proud by many people he knew, but he had never seen anything but affability in her. She had always spoken to him as she would to any other gentleman; she made not the smallest objection to his joining in the society of the neighbourhood nor to his leaving the parish occasionally for a week or two, to visit his relations. She had even condescended to advise him to marry as soon as he could, provided he chose with discretion; and had once paid him a visit in his humble parsonage, where she had perfectly approved all the alterations he had been making, and had even vouchsafed to suggest some herself—some shelves in the closet upstairs.””

Jane Austen

About This Quote

Source Novel: Pride and Prejudice, 1813

Mr. Bennet uses flattery toward Lady Catherine to gain favor, revealing social maneuvering and personal ambition.

In simple terms: He flatters to gain advantage.

Key Takeaway

Beware of insincere compliments for personal gain.

Themes

social dynamics flattery ambition class

Mood

observational critical

Type

literary analytical

When to use this quote

  • networking events
  • family gatherings
  • political negotiations

Key Concepts

power relations self‑interest courtship

Questions to Reflect On

  • When have you used compliments for personal benefit?
  • What are the risks of insincere praise?
A Different Perspective

Flattery can backfire if motives are exposed.

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