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“A single person is a manageable entity, whom you can either make friends with or leave alone. But half of a married couple is not exactly a whole human being: if the marriage is successful it is something a little more than that; if unsuccessful, a little less. In either case, a fresh complication…” quote by Jan Struther
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“A single person is a manageable entity, whom you can either make friends with or leave alone. But half of a married couple is not exactly a whole human being: if the marriage is successful it is something a little more than that; if unsuccessful, a little less. In either case, a fresh complication is added to the already intricate business of friendship: as Clem had once remarked, you might as well try to dance a tarantella with a Siamese twin.”

Jan Struther

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Little Book of Love, 1945

A marriage is a partnership that creates a new, complex identity beyond the individuals.

In simple terms: Marriage changes how we see ourselves.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the evolving nature of relationships.

Themes

relationships identity marriage friendship complexity

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical relationship

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • marriage workshops
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

social roles interpersonal dynamics psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does marriage reshape personal identity?
  • Can friendships survive the changes marriage brings?
A Different Perspective

A half‑couple is not a full person, but a shared entity.

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