Blind Quote by James Martineau
“If we listen to our self-love, we shall estimate our lot less by what it is than by what it is not; shall dwell upon its hindrances and be blind to its possibilities; and, comparing it only with imaginary lives, shall indulge in flattering dreams of what we should do if we had but power, and give if we had but wealth, and be if we had no temptations.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Essays on Moral Philosophy, James Martineau, 1865
Self‑love can distort perception, causing us to undervalue reality and fantasize about unattainable futures.
In simple terms: Self‑love misleads us about what we truly have.
Key Takeaway
Ground self‑esteem in reality, not fantasies.
Themes
self‑esteem
perception
reality
fantasy
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
philosophical
advisory
When to use this quote
- personal goal setting
- career planning
- relationship expectations
- financial decisions
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
cognitive bias
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your self‑image affect your choices?
- What realistic steps can balance dreams with ability?
A Different Perspective
Over‑reliance on self‑love may ignore practical constraints and lead to inaction.
