Baptists Quote by Jacques Maritain
“It has never been recommended to confuse "loving" with "seeking to please"... ...Salome pleased Herod's guests; I can hardly believe she was burning with love for them. As for poor John the Baptist... ...she certainly did not envelop him in her love.”
About This Quote
Affection should not be confused with a desire to please; true love is not contingent on serving others’ expectations.
In simple terms: Love ≠ people‑pleasing.
Key Takeaway
Distinguish love from approval‑seeking.
Themes
love
ethics
psychology
relationships
motivation
Mood
serious
thoughtful
Type
philosophical insight
ethical reflection
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- parent‑child dynamics
- friendship boundaries
Key Concepts
authenticity
self‑respect
Practical Applications
- Practice self‑compassion
- Set clear relational expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How can one recognize when love becomes a performance?
- What are the risks of conflating love with approval?
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![“[Oscar Wilde's Salome screenplay] is not autobiographical in a sense where you go to my house and see my kids and stuff like that, but that's why I guess it's semi-autobiographical.” quote by Al Pacino](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/784/al-pacino-1656_house_oscar-wilde-s-salome-screenplay-is-not-a_610419.jpg)
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