Amends Quote by Jack Kornfield
“Forgiveness does not mean that we have to continue to relate to those who have done us harm. In some cases the best practice may be to end our connection, to never speak to or be with a harmful person again. Sometimes in the process of forgiveness a person who hurts or betrayed us may wish to make amends, but even this does not require us to put ourselves in the way of further harm.”
About This Quote
Source Book: A Path with Peace by Jack Kornfield, 2009
Forgiveness frees us from resentment but does not obligate continued contact with harmful people; we can set boundaries to protect ourselves.
In simple terms: Forgiveness doesn’t require staying with toxic people.
Key Takeaway
Set healthy boundaries after forgiving.
Themes
forgiveness
boundaries
self‑care
Mood
reflective
empowering
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- leaving abusive relationships
- setting limits
- healing after betrayal
Key Concepts
psychology
personal growth
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance forgiveness with self‑protection?
- When is it safe to reconnect?
A Different Perspective
Forgiveness alone may not heal deep wounds without further action.
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