Better person Quote by J.T. Geissinger
““My throat raw with emotion, I said, “I thought love was supposed to be weak knees and butterflies in your stomach and a terrible longing that could never be quenched.” Eeny shook her head, chuckled, came over and embraced me. “No, child,” she said gently, patting my back. “That’s romance. Romance is built on doubt. Love is solid. Constant. If you’re not careful, you might mistake it for bein’ boring because it’s so reliable. Love is warm and deep and comfortable, just right, so you float in it peacefully without ever being scalded or frozen, like a perfect, relaxing bubble bath. “But it’s also fierce and strong and demands all the best parts of you, the parts that are giving and honest and true. Love makes you a better person. It makes you want to be a better person. You know it’s love when you feel comfortable just as you are, when you feel seen and understood, when you know you could tell all your darkest truths and they’d be accepted without judgement.” Eeny pulled away and gently smoothed a hand over my hair. “Love isn’t butterflies, boo. It isn’t weak knees. It’s a pride of lions. It’s a pack of wolves. It’s ‘I’ve got your back even if it costs me my own life,’ because unlike romance that fizzles at the first sign of trouble, love will fight to the death. When it’s love, you’ll go to war to avenge even the slightest offense. And you’ll be justified. “Because of all the marvelous and terrible things we can experience in this life, love is the only one that will last beyond it.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Unknown, contemporary romance fiction
Love is portrayed as a steady, reliable foundation, contrasting with fleeting romance; it demands honesty, growth, and deep connection.
In simple terms: Love is steady, deep, and demanding, not just butterflies.
Seek lasting, honest connections.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationship
- friendship
- self‑reflection
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance comfort and challenge in love?
- What habits keep love vibrant?
Love can feel routine if not nurtured; it requires ongoing effort.