Coming home Quote by J.R.R. Tolkien
““We shouldn't be here at all, if we'd known more about it before we started. But I suppose it's often that way. The brave things in the old tales and songs, Mr. Frodo: adventures, as I used to call them. I used to think that they were things the wonderful folk of the stories went out and looked for, because they wanted them, because they were exciting and life was a bit dull, a kind of a sport, as you might say. But that's not the way of it with the tales that really mattered, or the ones that stay in the mind. Folk seem to have been just landed in them, usually — their paths were laid that way, as you put it. But I expect they had lots of chances, like us, of turning back, only they didn't. And if they had, we shouldn't know, because they'd have been forgotten. We hear about those as just went on — and not all to a good end, mind you; at least not to what folk inside a story and not outside it call a good end. You know, coming home, and finding things all right, though not quite the same — like old Mr Bilbo. But those aren't always the best tales to hear, though they may be the best tales to get landed in! I wonder what sort of a tale we've fallen into?””
About This Quote
Source Film: The Lord of the Rings – The Fellowship of the Ring, 2001
The speaker reflects that real adventure is often unplanned, with choices and chances that shape destiny, unlike the neat, purposeful quests of old stories.
In simple terms: Adventures are messy and full of unexpected turns.
Embrace uncertainty and make purposeful choices.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- starting a new project
- making a career change
- entering a relationship
- facing a moral dilemma
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you see your life as a predetermined tale or a series of choices?
- How can you turn an unexpected path into a meaningful story?
The quote romanticizes fate, overlooking personal agency and the possibility of positive outcomes from deliberate planning.