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“You should have told her differently,' said Hermione, still with that maddeningly patient air. 'You should have said it was really annoying, but I'd made you promise to come along to the Three Broomsticks, and you really didn't want to go, you'd much rather spend the whole day with her, but…” quote by J.K. Rowling
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““You should have told her differently,' said Hermione, still with that maddeningly patient air. 'You should have said it was really annoying, but I'd made you promise to come along to the Three Broomsticks, and you really didn't want to go, you'd much rather spend the whole day with her, but unfortunately you thought you really ought to meet me and would she please, please come along with you, and hopefully you'd be able to get away more quickly? And it might have been a good idea to mention how ugly you think I am too,' Hermione added as an afterthought. 'But I don't think you're ugly,' said Harry, bemused. Hermione laughed.””

J.K. Rowling

About This Quote

Source Book: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, J.K. Rowling, 1999

Hermione reflects on how communication style affects relationships and self‑esteem, highlighting the importance of honesty and empathy.

In simple terms: How we say things matters for trust and feelings.

Key Takeaway

Speak truthfully and kindly.

Themes

communication relationships self‑esteem honesty empathy

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

dialogue character interaction

When to use this quote

  • friendship discussions
  • apology conversations
  • team meetings
  • family counseling

Key Concepts

interpersonal dynamics psychology conflict resolution

Questions to Reflect On

  • How could you convey honesty without over‑explaining?
  • When does humor help or hinder?
A Different Perspective

May be overly verbose, risking misunderstanding.

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