Love Quote by Irvin D. Yalom
““The true end of the whole love story, though the parties concerned are unaware of it, is that a particular child may be begotten. Therefore what here guides man is really an instinct directed to what is best in the species, whereas man himself imagines he is seeking merely a heightening of his own pleasure.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Love's Executioner, 1999
Love's ultimate purpose is species survival, not personal pleasure, though individuals often mistake it for self‑fulfillment.
In simple terms: Love aims at species survival, not just personal joy.
Key Takeaway
Align love with broader, altruistic goals.
Themes
love
evolution
species
pleasure
purpose
Mood
thoughtful
hopeful
Type
psychological
existential
When to use this quote
- parenting
- long‑term relationships
- community building
Key Concepts
biological drive
psychology
existential meaning
Questions to Reflect On
- What deeper purpose does your love serve?
- How can love balance personal joy and collective good?
A Different Perspective
Focusing solely on personal pleasure can neglect deeper connections.
