Asking god Quote by Immaculee Ilibagiza
““I said the Lord's Prayer hundreds of times, hoping to forgive the killers who were murdering all around me. It was no use-every time I got to the part asking God to "forgive those who trespass against us," my mouth went dry. I couldn't say the words because I didn't truly embrace the feeling behind them. My inability to forgive caused me even greater pain than the anguish I felt in being separated from my family, and it was worse than the physical torment of being constantly hunted.””
About This Quote
Source Memoir: Left to Live: One Woman's Story of Survival in a Nazi Death Camp, 1999
The speaker’s repeated prayer fails because forgiveness requires genuine feeling, not rote words; lacking it deepens suffering beyond physical hardship.
In simple terms: Forgiveness must be heartfelt, not just spoken.
Cultivate sincere compassion to ease inner pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- prisoner of war
- victim of genocide
- personal healing
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you truly forgive without feeling it?
- What practices help turn words into genuine compassion?
Forgiveness can be impossible when trauma overwhelms; healing may need time and support.