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“We must remain calm as parents and try not to lose control of ourselves, when we become parents. For how can we expect our kids to control themselves if we can’t do it? That seems unfair.” quote by Iben Dissing Sandahl
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““We must remain calm as parents and try not to lose control of ourselves, when we become parents. For how can we expect our kids to control themselves if we can’t do it? That seems unfair.””

Iben Dissing Sandahl

About This Quote

Parents need to model self‑control because children learn behavior by example; without parental calm, expectations of child self‑discipline are unrealistic.

In simple terms: Children copy how parents act, so parents must stay calm.

Key Takeaway

Model calm to teach self‑control.

Themes

parenting self‑control role modeling emotional intelligence

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice reflective parenting

When to use this quote

  • family dinner
  • disciplinary moments
  • stressful situations
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

behavioral modeling emotional regulation social learning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you maintain composure during a child’s outburst?
  • What strategies help you reset when you feel losing control?
A Different Perspective

Parents may struggle to stay calm under pressure, limiting the model they provide.

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