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“But you cant shut everyone out. I mean you have to have someone to love. . .someone to hold on to. . . someone--” quote by Hubert Selby, Jr
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“But you cant shut everyone out. I mean you have to have someone to love. . .someone to hold on to. . . someone--”

Hubert Selby, Jr

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Room” by Hubert Selby, Jr., 1971

Human connection requires opening up to love despite the fear of being shut out.

In simple terms: Love needs openness.

Key Takeaway

Allow yourself to love.

Themes

love vulnerability isolation

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • therapy
  • support groups
  • personal healing

Key Concepts

attachment theory existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What stops you from loving?
  • How can you safely open up?
A Different Perspective

Fear of loss can prevent intimacy.

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