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“When passion is not fed, it changes to need. At this juncture, marriage becomes a fixed idea in the mind of the bourgeois, being the only means whereby he can win a woman and appropriate her to his uses.” quote by Honore de Balzac
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“When passion is not fed, it changes to need. At this juncture, marriage becomes a fixed idea in the mind of the bourgeois, being the only means whereby he can win a woman and appropriate her to his uses.”

Honore de Balzac

About This Quote

Source Novel: Le Père Goriot, 1835

Unmet desire turns into a utilitarian aim, leading to marriage as a social transaction.

In simple terms: Passion becomes need, marriage a means.

Key Takeaway

Recognize when desire shifts to necessity.

Themes

desire marriage social class utilitarianism

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical social commentary

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • social expectations
  • marriage negotiations

Key Concepts

existentialism materialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you pursue relationships for love or utility?
  • How does societal pressure shape personal choices?
A Different Perspective

May overlook genuine connection in favor of convenience.

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