Appropriate Quote by Honore de Balzac
“When passion is not fed, it changes to need. At this juncture, marriage becomes a fixed idea in the mind of the bourgeois, being the only means whereby he can win a woman and appropriate her to his uses.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Le Père Goriot, 1835
Unmet desire turns into a utilitarian aim, leading to marriage as a social transaction.
In simple terms: Passion becomes need, marriage a means.
Recognize when desire shifts to necessity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- social expectations
- marriage negotiations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you pursue relationships for love or utility?
- How does societal pressure shape personal choices?
May overlook genuine connection in favor of convenience.