Husband Quote by Honore de Balzac
“A lover always thinks of his mistress first and himself second; with a husband it runs the other way.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Le Père Goriot, 1835
A lover prioritizes his mistress over himself, while a husband does the opposite, highlighting role‑reversal in affection.
In simple terms: Lovers and husbands place affection differently.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how relationship roles shift affection.
Themes
love
marriage
self‑interest
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- marital counseling
- relationship advice
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Psychology of relationships
social norms
role reversal
Questions to Reflect On
- How do personal priorities affect partners?
- When does self‑sacrifice become unhealthy?
A Different Perspective
May oversimplify complex dynamics.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
