Angry man Quote by Henry Cloud
““Do not rescue an angry man, lest you have to do it again tomorrow” (Proverbs 19:19, my paraphrase). In other words, if you give in once to someone’s anger, get ready to do it again the next time you say no.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend, 1999
Giving in to anger once creates a pattern that invites repeated demands, so setting firm limits prevents ongoing conflict.
In simple terms: Yielding to anger once invites more anger later.
Key Takeaway
Set firm boundaries early.
Themes
anger
boundaries
repetition
conflict
self‑control
Mood
cautious
assertive
Type
practical
relationship.
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- parenting
- workplace management
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
behavioral psychology
relationship dynamics
assertiveness
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries protect you from repeated anger?
- How can you enforce limits without resentment?
A Different Perspective
Strict boundaries may strain relationships if not communicated kindly.
