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“We are wired to find love.”

Helen Fisher

About This Quote

Source Book: "Anatomy of Love" by Helen Fisher, 2013

States humans are biologically programmed to seek romantic connections.

In simple terms: Humans are wired for love.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love as a natural drive.

Themes

biology romance human nature

Mood

scientific thoughtful

Type

educational analytical

When to use this quote

dating
relationship building

Key Concepts

evolutionary psychology attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

What evolutionary benefits does love provide?
How does this wiring affect modern relationships?

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