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Anxiety Quote by Heather Moehn

“Perfectionism People with social anxiety tend to be perfectionists. A degree of perfectionism is generally seen as a good trait. It makes people strive to do the best they can. Perfectionists have an eye for mistakes that often escape the notice of other people. They are very successful students…” quote by Heather Moehn
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““ Perfectionism People with social anxiety tend to be perfectionists. A degree of perfectionism is generally seen as a good trait. It makes people strive to do the best they can. Perfectionists have an eye for mistakes that often escape the notice of other people. They are very successful students and do well in the workplace. However, perfectionism can be taken too far. If you are a perfectionist, you probably set unrealistic goals for yourself. When you are unable to meet your expectations, you feel let down and depressed. You may feel that no matter how hard you try, you will never be good enough. Social anxiety becomes worse when you are a perfectionist. Expecting to act perfectly in every situation puts great pressure on you. If you feel you need to make a great impression every time you meet someone, if you want to say something brilliant every time you open your mouth, or if you want everyone to love you, you are setting yourself up for great disappointments. The pressures associated with perfectionism and social anxiety can keep you from succeeding and being happy. They result in the fear of making mistakes, stress from the pressure to perform, and extreme self-consciousness. Perfectionism also causes tension, frustration, disappointment, anger, and sadness.””

Heather Moehn

About This Quote

Source Book: Anxiety and Perfectionism, 2020

Perfectionism fuels anxiety, leading to unrealistic expectations and emotional distress.

In simple terms: Perfectionism can harm mental health.

Key Takeaway

Balance standards with self‑compassion.

Themes

mental health perfectionism anxiety

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • academic work
  • career tasks
  • social interactions
  • personal goals

Key Concepts

self‑criticism expectation management

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you set realistic goals?
  • What self‑compassion practices help?
A Different Perspective

Perfectionism can also drive high achievement.

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