Esteem Quote by Harry Stack Sullivan
“If you have to maintain self-esteem by pulling down the standing of others, you are extraordinarily unfortunate.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry, 1953
Criticizes building self‑esteem by demeaning others, calling it an unhealthy coping mechanism.
In simple terms: Self‑worth should not rely on putting others down.
Key Takeaway
Build confidence without harming others.
Themes
self‑esteem
empathy
ethics
interpersonal relations
psychology
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
analytical
Type
philosophical
practical
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- team leadership
- educational settings
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
humanistic psychology
self‑concept
social comparison
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we foster mutual respect?
- What alternatives exist to boost self‑esteem?
A Different Perspective
Some may feel compelled to dominate due to insecurity.
