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“If what we are doing with our anger is not achieving the desired result, it would seem logical to try something different.” quote by Harriet Lerner
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“If what we are doing with our anger is not achieving the desired result, it would seem logical to try something different.”

Harriet Lerner

About This Quote

Source Book: The Dance of Anger, 1985

If anger isn’t effective, change tactics; flexibility is key to resolution.

In simple terms: Change tactics when anger fails.

Key Takeaway

Adapt your approach to conflict.

Themes

conflict resolution emotional intelligence flexibility

Mood

calm thoughtful

Type

psychological practical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • workplace
  • family therapy
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

strategic adaptation communication skills

Questions to Reflect On

  • What alternative strategies can you try?
  • How do you know when to shift approach?
A Different Perspective

Changing tactics may be resisted by others.

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