Accomplish Quote by H. L. Mencken
“For it is mutual trust, even more than mutual interest that holds human associations together. Our friends seldom profit us but they make us feel safe. Marriage is a scheme to accomplish exactly that same end.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The American Scholar, 1915
Mutual trust outweighs mutual interest in sustaining human relationships; friendships provide safety, while marriage aims to secure that safety.
In simple terms: Trust is more vital than shared interests in bonds.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize trust to strengthen relationships.
Themes
trust
friendship
marriage
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
social
When to use this quote
- friendship building
- marriage counseling
- community building
Key Concepts
social cohesion
psychology
human nature
Questions to Reflect On
- What actions build trust in friendships?
- Can marriage replace the safety found in friendships?
A Different Perspective
Trust can be fragile and easily broken.
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