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“Her source of self respect was that she had not - as she put it - given up and crawled into safety somewhere. Into a safe marriage.” quote by Doris Lessing
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““Her source of self respect was that she had not - as she put it - given up and crawled into safety somewhere. Into a safe marriage.””

Doris Lessing

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Golden Notebook, 1962

Self‑respect arises from refusing to surrender to safety that stifles growth, even when that safety feels like a marriage.

In simple terms: Self‑respect means not settling for comfort that limits you.

Key Takeaway

Stand firm in personal growth despite safe comforts.

Themes

self‑respect growth comfort zones marriage independence

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career advancement
  • relationship choices
  • personal development
  • life transitions

Key Concepts

feminist literature existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What comforts hold you back?
  • How can you balance safety and growth?
A Different Perspective

May overlook the value of supportive relationships.

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