““Hey, I just learned something earlier this week that is changing my life,” Liz replied. “Change one word and you change your attitude. Replace have with get.” I looked puzzled, so she elaborated. “Instead of ‘I have to do laundry,’ say, ‘I get to do laundry.’ As in, I get to do it because I have clothes for myself and my family. Instead of saying, ‘I have to pay bills,’ try ‘I get to pay bills’ because I can afford electricity.””