Afraid Know Quote by Grant Allen
““In fact, in this modern England of ours, this fatherland of snobdom, one passes one's life in a see-saw of doubt, between the Scylla and Charybdis of those two antithetical social dangers: You are always afraid you may get to know somebody you yourself do not want to know, or may try to know somebody who does not want to know you.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Woman Who Did, 1895
People fear both intimacy and isolation, creating a social tug‑of‑war between connection and rejection.
In simple terms: Balancing desire for relationships with fear of rejection.
Key Takeaway
Seek genuine connections while respecting boundaries.
Themes
social anxiety
relationships
fear
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- dating
- networking events
- family gatherings
- online communities
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What relationships do you avoid out of fear?
- How can you navigate mutual interest safely?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on fear can hinder forming healthy bonds.
