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Love Quote by Graham Greene

“But we do not love people for what they do for us. Love happens to us; it isn't created.” quote by Graham Greene
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““But we do not love people for what they do for us. Love happens to us; it isn't created.””

Graham Greene

About This Quote

Love is an involuntary emotional state that arises independently of any reciprocal benefit or utility, not a deliberate choice based on actions.

In simple terms: Love is spontaneous, not transactional.

Key Takeaway

Love is a feeling, not a decision.

Themes

love emotion human nature relationships selflessness

Mood

reflective intimate philosophical

Type

aphorism philosophical quote

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • family bonds
  • friendship
  • romantic partnership

Key Concepts

affect volition interpersonal dynamics

Practical Applications

  • therapy counseling
  • relationship building

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does it mean to love without expectation?
  • How does this view of love affect how we treat others?
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