Dichotomies Quote by Gilbert Durand
““In fact it seems that there may be not one but two basic dichotomies : on the one hand similitude and difference, on the other hands solidarity and opposition. The "indifference" is ultimately a form of opposition. At the pre-oedipien state, when there is acquired the distinction of the self and the other, similitude is a sign of belonging to a single class, an extension of the self, and difference is a sign of exteriority, of separation. With the oedipien state the homology is reversed: difference of sex signifies complementarity and desire, whereas identity of sex entails identity of object of desire, rivalry, conflict””
About This Quote
The passage maps human relational dynamics onto two binary oppositions—similarity vs. difference and solidarity vs. opposition—showing how these shift from early self-other distinction to later Oedipal structures where similarity and difference acquire new social meanings.
In simple terms: Early self‑other relations invert as we mature, redefining similarity and difference.
Key Takeaway
Relational binaries evolve with psychological development.
Themes
psychology
philosophy
identity
social dynamics
Mood
analytical
reflective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- family therapy
- cultural identity formation
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
binary opposition
Oedipal complex
Practical Applications
- use binary analysis to map group cohesion
- apply developmental stages to organizational change
Questions to Reflect On
- How do these binaries manifest in modern digital communities?
- Can similarity be a source of conflict rather than solidarity?
A Different Perspective
The model may oversimplify complex social interactions into rigid dichotomies.
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