Control freak Quote by George Takei
““Brad, I first saw you about twenty-five years ago at a Frontrunner's run around Silver Lake reservoir. I thought you were drop-dead gorgeous! Then I saw that you were the best runner in the club to boot. Later, I learned that you had already run two marathons. I decided you were going to train me for my first marathon. And you did. You did a good job because I finished that 26.2 mile run. Since then, we've been running the marathon of life together for the last 21 years. In those years, we've come to know each others' strengths, shortcomings, and where we complement each other. Brad, you are an organized, detail obsessed, punctuality driven control freak. I'm easy-going with details. So we're a perfect fit. We've worked together, achieved together, and enjoyed the fruits of our achievements together. When my mother became ill and no longer could take care of herself, we moved her in with us. And you helped me care for her with the devotion and affection of a true son. So my vow to you is also a tribute to you. As we bind our love with this wedding ceremony, in this forum of democracy, in this September of my life, I vow to care for you as you've cared for me, cherish you with all my heart, and love you as my husband and the only man in my life. I love you very much.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Wedding vows, personal ceremony, 2023
A partner celebrates shared history, complementary strengths, and vows lifelong support and love.
In simple terms: Celebrating partnership and commitment.
Cherish and support each other always.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- wedding ceremony
- daily life
- caring for aging parent
- marathon training
- long‑term partnership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain balance when strengths differ?
- What habits sustain long‑term partnership?
May idealization overlook future challenges.