Advice Quote by George Saunders
“Now, we don't really believe these things - intellectually we know better - but we believe them viscerally, and live by them, and they cause us to prioritize our own needs over the needs of others, even though what we really want, in our hearts, is to be less selfish, more aware of what's actually happening in the present moment, more open, and more loving.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Empathy Gap, 2018
People intellectually know better but emotionally act selfishly, yearning for less selfishness and greater presence.
In simple terms: We act selfishly despite knowing better.
Cultivate empathy and present-moment awareness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- teamwork
- community service
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your selfish impulses?
- How can you practice present awareness daily?
Changing deep habits requires sustained effort.