Being loved Quote by George MacDonald
“It is by loving, and not by being loved, that one can come nearest the soul of another; yea, that, where two love, it is the loving of each other, that originates and perfects and assures their blessedness. I knew that love gives to him that loveth, power over over any soul be loved, even if that soul know him not, bringing him inwardly close to that spirit; a power that cannot be but for good; for in proportion as selfishness intrudes, the love ceases, and the power which springs therefrom dies. Yet all love will, one day, meet with its return.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Phantastes by George MacDonald, 1858
Love that is given, not received, brings us closest to another’s soul; true love empowers and sanctifies, but selfishness erodes it, and love ultimately returns to its source.
In simple terms: Giving love brings us close to others; selfishness weakens it.
Cultivate selfless love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- mentorship
- community service
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you love without expecting anything?
- What does it mean for love to return?
Selfish motives can corrupt love’s power.