About yourself Quote by Gary Renard
“The way you will experience and feel about yourself is not determined by how other people look and feel about you. The way that you will experience and feel about yourself is actually determined by how YOU look at and think about THEM. Whatever we think about others is really like sending a message about ourselves to our self.”
About This Quote
Source Book: A Course in Miracles (interpretive teaching)
Self‑perception is shaped by how we view others; our judgments reflect back onto our own identity.
In simple terms: How you see others defines your self‑image.
Reflect on your judgments and choose kinder perspectives.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- interpersonal conflict
- self‑esteem issues
- therapy sessions
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your view of others influence your confidence?
- What steps can you take to see others more compassionately?
Changing perception alone may not change external behavior; action is also needed.