Catholic Quote by Fulton J. Sheen
““All love on this earth involves choice. When, for example, a young man expresses his love to a young woman and asks her to become his wife, he is not just making an affirmation of love; he is also negating his love for anyone else. In that one act by which he chooses her, he rejects all that is not her. There is no other real way in which to prove we love a thing than by choosing it in preference to something else. Word and signs of love may be, and often are, expressions of egotism or passion; but deeds are proofs of love. We can prove we love our Lord only by choosing Him in preference to anything else.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Faith of Our Fathers, Fulton J. Sheen, 1950
Love is demonstrated by choosing one over all others, showing commitment through action rather than words.
In simple terms: Love is a choice that excludes alternatives.
Key Takeaway
Show love by prioritizing actions over words.
Themes
love
choice
commitment
Mood
contemplative
spiritual
Type
theological
motivational
When to use this quote
- marriage proposals
- religious devotion
- personal relationships
- career choices
Key Concepts
ethical decision‑making
spiritual devotion
Questions to Reflect On
- What does choosing one over many reveal about your values?
- How can you honor those not chosen while staying true to your commitment?
A Different Perspective
Choosing one can cause pain for those excluded and may be socially challenging.
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