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“Love is a choice -- not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretense or guile.” quote by Carter Heyward
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“Love is a choice -- not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretense or guile.”

Carter Heyward

About This Quote

Source Book: The Ethics of Care, 1995

Love involves selfless presence, not just rational choice.

In simple terms: Love is self‑less presence.

Key Takeaway

Practice unconditional attentiveness.

Themes

love choice presence authenticity

Mood

compassionate thoughtful

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • community service
  • mental health support

Key Concepts

ethical caring interpersonal ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance self‑care with selfless love?
  • When does love become self‑sacrificing?
A Different Perspective

May conflict with personal boundaries.

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