Children Quote by Fredrik Backman
““It’s just as easy to be exclusive as it is to be inclusive, just as easy to create an Us as a Them. Benji has never been worried about being beaten up or hated if anyone finds out the truth about him; he’s been hated by every opposing team since he was a child. The only thing he’s scared of is that one day there will be jokes that his teammates and coach won’t tell when he’s in the room. The exclusivity of laughter.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Anxious People by Fredrik Backman, 2019
Exclusivity and inclusion are equally easy, but fear of being singled out can dominate social dynamics.
In simple terms: Inclusivity and exclusivity are both simple choices.
Key Takeaway
Challenge social exclusion.
Themes
inclusion
exclusivity
fear
Mood
thoughtful
serious
Type
sociological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- team sports
- workplace
- friend groups
Key Concepts
social dynamics
identity
group behavior
Questions to Reflect On
- How does humor impact group cohesion?
- What strategies reduce fear of exclusion?
A Different Perspective
Balancing inclusion with individuality can be complex.
