Computers Quote by Francine Pascal
““She had started driving past his apartment to see whether or not his car was out front. She had looked up his phone number, and twice she had called his apartment from the pay phone in school, knowing he wouldn’t be at home, just so she could hear how sexy his voice sounded on his answering machine. Was this what falling in love was supposed to feel like?””
About This Quote
The narrator questions whether obsessive monitoring and yearning for a lover’s presence constitute love, highlighting insecurity and idealization.
In simple terms: Obsessive longing masquerades as love.
Key Takeaway
Love can be confused with fixation.
Themes
love
insecurity
obsession
identity
longing
Mood
melancholy
anxious
reflective
Type
narrative
contemplative
When to use this quote
- late‑night checking of a partner’s whereabouts
- listening to an answering machine for reassurance
- driving past a lover’s home repeatedly
Key Concepts
self‑esteem
communication
boundaries
Practical Applications
- self‑reflection on relationship health
- writing a character study
Questions to Reflect On
- What signs indicate love has become unhealthy?
- How might one differentiate genuine affection from fear of loss?
A Different Perspective
Obsession can erode trust and personal autonomy, turning affection into control.
