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Anger Quote by Frances Hodgson Burnett

“When you will not fly into a passion people know you are stronger than they are, because you are strong enough to hold in your rage, and they are not, and they say stupid things they wish they hadn't said afterward. There's nothing so strong as rage, except what makes you hold it in—that's…” quote by Frances Hodgson Burnett
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““When you will not fly into a passion people know you are stronger than they are, because you are strong enough to hold in your rage, and they are not, and they say stupid things they wish they hadn't said afterward. There's nothing so strong as rage, except what makes you hold it in—that's stronger. It's a good thing not to answer your enemies. I scarcely ever do.””

Frances Hodgson Burnett

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Secret Garden, 1911

Holding back rage shows inner strength; responding to provocation often weakens you

In simple terms: Self‑control is a sign of true power

Key Takeaway

Practice restraint in conflict

Themes

self‑control strength emotional intelligence

Mood

thoughtful calm

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace disputes
  • online interactions
  • leadership

Key Concepts

psychology ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it wiser to speak rather than stay silent?
  • How does restraint affect personal credibility?
A Different Perspective

Suppressing emotions can lead to internal stress

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