Quote by Fatimah Syarha Mohd Noordin
““Jika ada kawan yang suka menghukum , perlu tahu seni mendidik. Jika ada kawan yang suka merajuk , perlu tahu seni memujuk. Jika ada kawan ynag payah berbincang , perlu tahu seni memulakan. Jika ada kawan yang suka mengata belakang , perlu berhikmah memberi peringatan. Jika ada kawan yang suka berhujah , perlu tahu seni memikat hati.””
About This Quote
The quote outlines how to handle friends' negative behaviors with appropriate virtues: discipline, persuasion, initiation, warning, and charm.
In simple terms: Use specific virtues to respond to different negative friend behaviors.
Apply the right virtue to each situation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship
- conflict resolution
- teaching
- leadership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Which virtue is hardest for you to practice?
- How can you adapt these principles across cultures?
The advice may be culturally specific and not universally applicable.