Consequence Quote by Fanny Fern
“Show me an 'easy person,' and I will show you a selfish one. Good-natured he may be; why not? since the disastrous consequences of his 'easiness' are generally shouldered by other people.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: 1840s newspaper column, Fanny Fern, null
Being overly accommodating can enable selfishness in others, shifting the burden away from the "easy" person.
In simple terms: Easy people may cause others to bear negative outcomes.
Key Takeaway
Watch for hidden costs of excessive compliance.
Themes
selfishness
responsibility
boundaries
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- teamwork
- family relationships
- community projects
- volunteer groups
Key Concepts
social dynamics
ethical tradeoffs
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance kindness with self‑preservation?
- When does helping become enabling?
A Different Perspective
Not all generosity is altruistic; intentions may be misunderstood.
