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Human condition Quote by Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham

“Openness to paradox allows both the understanding and the acceptance of our human condition as “both/and" (both a saint and a sinner) rather than "either/or" (either a saint or a sinner). The demand for "either—or,” for one—or—the—other, signals the rejection of paradox and therefore the denial of…” quote by Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham
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““Openness to paradox allows both the understanding and the acceptance of our human condition as “both/and" (both a saint and a sinner) rather than "either/or" (either a saint or a sinner). The demand for "either—or,” for one—or—the—other, signals the rejection of paradox and therefore the denial of spirituality.””

Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham

About This Quote

Source Book: Paradox and Spirituality, 1995

Accepting paradox lets us embrace the full complexity of humanity, avoiding limiting either/or thinking.

In simple terms: Embrace paradox to accept human complexity.

Key Takeaway

Practice holding both truths simultaneously.

Themes

spirituality complexity acceptance

Mood

contemplative thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal meditation
  • therapy
  • ethical decision‑making
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Dialectical thinking integrative psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • In what areas of life do you default to either/or?
  • How might embracing both sides change your perspective?
A Different Perspective

Paradox can be unsettling and hard to sustain.

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